Community rules
Short, plain and enforced. Read these before you enter the lounge.
Meet live. Video only.
There is no messaging on FlirtOutLoud — no chat, no direct messages, no voice notes, no photo or file sending, and no notes attached to a like or an invitation. Members meet each other on live video or not at all. Both cameras stay on for the whole conversation: if either camera stops, the call ends for both people and there is no audio-only fallback.
A round table: one seat, one turn
You can be in only one private conversation at a time, on any device. When a conversation ends it is complete: you and that person disappear from each other's live table permanently, neither of you can invite the other again in either direction, and the old room cannot be reopened — including after reloading or signing out and back in. Declining an invitation or simply looking at someone does not use up your turn. Liking someone is private and never overrides a completed conversation. Each new conversation still needs both people to accept; nobody is ever connected automatically.
Adults only, 18 and over
Membership is for adults. You confirm your own eligibility when you create your account. This is a self-declaration — we do not perform identity or age verification, and we do not claim to.
Camera on means present, not verified
A live camera shows that someone is here right now. It is not proof of who they are — browsers can use virtual cameras. Take the same care you would meeting anyone new.
Consent for every connection
A like is private and connects nothing. A private video invitation has to be explicitly accepted. Either person can leave a call instantly, at any moment, without explanation.
Keep it non-explicit and respectful
FlirtOutLoud is a lounge, not an adult-content service. No nudity, no sexual content, no harassment, no hate, no commercial solicitation, and nobody else on camera without their agreement.
Nothing is recorded here
We do not record calls, store video, or take snapshots from anyone's camera. We also cannot prevent someone from capturing their own screen with external software — treat any live conversation accordingly.
Block and report
Blocking is immediate and mutual: you disappear from each other, active invitations and calls stop, and no future connection is possible. Reports are stored privately and are visible only to you and to the site owner.